Liar Liar

Ok, so you all may or may not remember Mr. Inconsiderate. He is a man I dated that has no clue about respect for a woman. Apparently, he isn't familiar with the truth, or being comfortable in one's own skin, either.

When I wrote that blog, dated February 4, it had been three days after he tried contacting me again. If you recall, I met Mr. Inconsiderate on a web site called myspace.com. Interestingly enough, his web of lies (no pun intended on the 'web' reference) have caught up to him. It seems he has crossed the wrong woman. About two weeks ago, a woman from myspace started contacting the girls on Mr. Inconsiderate's "Friends List" to warn them of his lies. He tried defending himself by sending out a mass e-mail bulletin, stating "this psycho is obsessed with me, don't listen to her. Those who know me, know she is lying."

I sat there thinking, "I don't know you. And I think you're a liar."

Apparently, I'm not alone. This woman also started a myspace group, Just (in) Lies for all of Mr. Inconsiderate's ex-girlfriends. She invited all of the woman on his Friends List. 37 have joined, with many more anonymously submitting their tales of lies regarding this man.

The group is hilarious, a true symbol of women's empowerment and unity. These women aren't crying over him, nor are they fighting. Instead, they have banned together against him, forming friendships and swapping stories of when they all dated him (there are many overlaps) and how he lied to each of them.

The moderator uses the group as a community service of sorts. The groups description states: "This group is to compare and contrast the stories and lies of a myspace whore. His name is Justin "Gambino"...I decided to start this group because of the colorful nature of this boy's lies...No bitterness here ladies please...We're not against each other, we're just trying to blow up his spot and inform the rest of myspace so the nonsense can stop. I swear that I'm not some tainted lover trying to get revenge...I'm just a girl who hates Lies and the Lieing (sic) Liars that tell them ;)" She has even posted some pics of the said liar.

Among this man's lies (there are many more not listed here):

*He uses four different last names: Gambino, Lewis, Cantor and Perov
*He claims he is a member of the Gambino crime family, and that his father was whacked before his eyes when he was 5
*His brother is Aaron Lewis, lead singer of rock band STAIND
*He works for an entertainment management firm as their NYC rep
*His part-time gig consists of working in the distribution department for AM New York, a free tabloid in New York City
*His home in Brooklyn is [always] under construction, but it is a temporary home until his apartment in SOHO is complete
*He offered to buy one girl a BMW (apparently he offers outrageous gifts that never are given or he buys, buys, buys things for each girl)
*He said his mom has a summer home in Sydney, Australia
*He claims to know/be friends with many rock stars and porn stars
*He either claims to have never been married and is childless, or will say he is going through a divorce and has a 10-year old daughter
*Some women were told he is 29, other's were told he is 36
*He has a myspace page where he claims his name is David and he is 18 years old
*He proposed to one woman, giving her two rings: both were fake, one fell apart

Now among these women, he either uses the same lies, or changes it up a bit. If you have a kid, so does he, if you are in your 20s, he is 29. If you are in your 30s, he is 36. One woman he dated had cancer when she was younger, so he told her his cancer is in remission. Mental problems? of course.

No one knows where he really lives, or who he really is. I'm pretty sure he doesn't know either. This myspace group is informative on many levels. It is also piecing the puzzle together. We all think he really works for French Connection, because the one gift we all received from him is FCUK fragrances.

There is no purpose to this Blog other than to entertain and inform everyone of the liars who are out there. Take notes, read the myspace group dedicated to his lies, and hide your wife and kids. A true looney is on the loose.

Oh, one last note: the moderator is going to invite him to his own group shortly. I'm pretty sure she will notify myspace.com regarding this "whore" as well.

I'll keep you posted.